Sometime in early August, Emma Beddington wrote an article in the Guardian under the title Ignore those lists of goals to hit by age 30 – here’s what you should have done by 47.
Well I’m a bit past worrying about either 30 or 47, but it did get me thinking. I wonder what achievements and landmarks I managed in each decade of my life so far? Well here’s a list. It’s all a bit frightening really, when written down like this …
0 to 10
- Entered the world and was healthy
- Learnt to read, write, do arithmetic
- Learnt to ride a bike
- Learnt to swim
- Introduced to nudism
- Introduced to lightweight camping
10 to 20
- Passed 11+
- Sung in school choir (including Messiah, Benjamin Britten’s St Nicholas, and HMS Pinafore; also at St Paul’s Cathedral)
- Scout troop leader
- Visited the Lake District with school (twice), and Scotland with scouts (twice)
- School prize for A-levels
- Went to university to study chemistry
- Learnt computer programming
- Played cricket and hockey for school & university
- Treasurer, and briefly Chairman, of university radio station
- Broken engagement
20 to 30
- Somehow got a BA, MSc & PhD
- Representative on various staff/student committees & similar
- Resident Tutor
- Met Prof. Sir George Porter (Nobel Laureate) at Royal Institution
- Converted to Catholicism and lapsed
- 3rd XI club cricket captain
- Learnt to umpire cricket, properly (but never bothered to take the exams)
- Met my handful of most influential friends
- Unemployed for 3 months
- Permanent job (at IBM)
- School governor
- Organised a tour for my cricket club
- Finally moved away from home
- Got my own rented flat
- Appendix removed and a summer off work
- Married
30 to 40
- Bought the house
- Got our first cats
- Organised a tour for a different cricket club
- Had a summer off work with glandular fever
- Had an affair
40 to 50
- Paid off the mortgage
- Built a fish pond
- Started Anthony Powell website & email discussion list
- Founded (with others) the Anthony Powell Society; appointed Secretary
50 to 60
- Father died
- Started this blog
- Retired (from IBM)
- Silver wedding
- Conducted the funeral of a friend; gave the eulogy at her husband’s funeral two years later
- Got a piercing (don’t ask, TMIA)
- Visited USA
- Ran five Anthony Powell international conferences
- Had Sunday Lunch at the Ritz
- Visited Eton College; and Balliol College, Oxford
- Met Ian Rankin and Tariq Ali
- Attended the Service of the Most Noble Order of the Garter in St George’s Chapel, Windsor
- Diagnosed with Obstructive Sleep Apnoea and Type 2 Diabetes
60 to 70
- Mother died
- Became a state registered geriatric
- Met the Earl of Gowrie; and Lady Antonia Fraser
- Ran another four Anthony Powell international conferences
- Had formal dinner (and informal lunch) in Masters Common Room of Eton College
- Stood down as Secretary & Trustee of Anthony Powell Society after 18 years
- Involved in founding GP’s patient group; appointed Chairman
- Published (privately) a book of photographs
- Bilateral knee replacements
- Ruby Wedding
- Attended Buckingham Palace Garden Party
Over 70
- Appointed to my local council’s Community Review Panel
That includes a number of things I never dreamt I’d do, like visiting Eton College (and drinking their champagne); meeting an Earl who was also a former Cabinet minister; dining at the Ritz; attending a Buckingham Palace Garden Party.
So even if I exclude the things we all do – like reading, writing and losing parents – that’s still a somewhat mind-boggling list for a mediocre grammar school boy!
However I don’t really feel it is exceptional. Mostly because I’ve drifted; I’ve gone where the wind took me; none of this was a pre-planned long-term objective, because I’ve never had a life (or career) plan. I’ve done what was there at the time. If you’d asked me at 11, 18, or even 21, I couldn’t have predicted any of this (except the very obvious). And I find that somewhat scary.








Greater London has thousands of pubs – so many that probably no-one had counted them; and in any event the list would change daily. In 136 pages the authors of this slim volume describe the origins of over 650 of the more unusual or interesting pub names in Greater London – all the way from “Aces & Eights” (Tufnell Park) to the “Zetland Arms” (South Kensington). As one can imagine, at an average of about 5 pubs and a photograph per page, the descriptions are not very detailed. This is a shame, as there is undoubtedly more to be told about most of these names, and many others.