1. Who was your first crush?
A girl in my class at school named Sandra Shorer. We were about 10, maybe younger. She was not at all interested. I wonder where she is now, some 45 years later?
2. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
Introvert, although I can move towards extrovert if I have to I can’t do proper extrovert and I don’t find it comfortable.
3. What is your favorite non-sexual thing you like to do with the love of your life?
Talk. The one thing we vowed to do when we got married was to keep talking to each other. I won’t say we have a permanent on-going conversation, but it comes very close at times. It helps that we are interested in many of the same things and understand the world in similar ways and with similar humour.
4. Name one quirky habit your partner does that either annoys you or makes you grin.
Does everything too slowly; every job seems to take twice the time it would if I did it.
5. Do you believe in monogamous relationships?
No, not unless that is what both of you agree you want after careful thought. Monogamy is not how the human species was designed, it is an artificial invention of god philosophies used in order to keep control (of both men and women). Multiple partners are fine but they should not be hidden, secret affairs — be open about it; which means talking and communication.
[Brought to you courtesy of Friday Five.]
1 First crush – a female teacher who was tall, smart and interested in the same books as me – at the time this would have have been Georgette Heyer. The teacher’s name totally escapes me now.2. Introvert or extrovert? – both – currently going through introvert phase, but love training having been thrown into a training environment some years ago. Standing up in front of a crowd of strangers and talking holds no terrors for me!! A useful accomplishment3 Favourite non-sexual thing – definitely talk – closely followed by eat.4. Quirky habit – makes very black and white statements as though they’re God’s honest truth rather than his opinion5. Monogamous relationships – are you talking about in general or personally? For me personally monogamous at present provides me with what I need, but I have no objection to anything else in principle – provided it suits the individuals concerned.jillysheep
Have commented on your meme from beginning of the month as well