Katyboo posted this meme the other day, and as she didn’t tag people, preferring us to elect or not, I’ll take the bait. Well it’s better than doing whatever it is I’m supposed to be doing.
The rules of the meme are: Respond and rework. Answer questions on your own blog. Replace one question. Add one question. Then tag eight people.
What are your current obsessions? Depression. I don’t know why I’m so depressed at the moment (I’ll blame work, it’s as good a scapegoat as any, but it almost certainly isn’t the only factor) but it is taking over and stopping me doing things.
Which item from your wardrobe do you wear most often? The Emperor’s new suit. Nudity and getting fresh, cooling, air to the body is actually good for you; it stops you getting all sticky and sweaty in places you don’t want to. I do wear a pair of shorts or jeans (more if I need to) during the week, if only so I can get to the front door quickly. Otherwise I follow the maxim “Nude when possible, clothed when necessary”.
What’s for dinner? Vegetable Crumble, I think. Well we are trying to be good and reduce our meat intake for the sake of our health and the planet. And Noreen does a mean veggie crumble with mushroom, onion or cheese sauce. Yum, yum!
Last thing you bought? In a shop? Not a clue; I hardly ever got to shops these days. Online? Some scented geraniums.
What are you listening to? The hum of my PC. I can’t take continual background music (let alone talk) these days. I suspect that’s related to the depression.
Do you have a pet and if not, why not? Yes, two cats and lots of fish (both tropical and in the pond). And no, the cats take no interest whatsoever in the fish.
Favourite holiday spots? Dorset and South Devon, by the sea. Well anywhere quiet by the sea really.
Reading right now? My PC screen, stoopid! 🙂
Four words to describe yourself? Fat, grey, snotty, depressed.
Guilty pleasure? Why do pleasures always have to be guilty? Erotica. Yes and I’m unashamed about it. In the words of Jean-Luc Goddard, “Eroticism … is consenting to live.” If no-one ever found anything erotic we’d none of us be here!
Who or what makes you laugh until you’re weak? edartr at Flickr‘s photographs of his hilarious two dogs; see here for example.
First spring thing? Zebedee
Planning to travel to next? Norwich to see my mother. Don’t know when yet, but it should be soon.
Best thing you ate or drank lately? East Green
Do you have any weird phobias? No. There are things I dislike intensely, like maggots, but nothing which turns me into a complete gibbering wreck.
Favourite ever film? As I don’t do films I’ll change this one. My question is: What time is it now, and what time would you like it to be? It’s currently 1150 hrs, and thus fast approaching lunchtime. What time would I like? The time I can drink beer freely again.
Care to share some wisdom? “It’ll pass, Sir, like other days in the Army.”
Favourite song? Pink Floyd, Learning to Fly. Well that’s one of them anyway.
What’s your favourite meal you make without sticking to a recipe? Curry. But then I almost never use a recipe for anything except cake – and I never make cake.
Who would play you in a movie of your life? Who would be stupid enough to even consider it? Maybe Harpo Marx? Actually Woody Allen probably suits my personality better. 🙁
Facebook or Twitter? Other or Neither? For preference neither. I do dabble on Facebook from time to time, mainly as a way of not quite losing touch with people. But as far as I can see Twitter is a complete waste of time and everything else; no-one has yet managed to explain the point to me. The same goes for Second Life and YouTube.
What is your favourite word? What do you mean I’m not allowed that one? It’s a perfectly good Anglo-Saxon word. Oh OK, let’s have something boring then, like corvid.
OK, so here’s the question I’ve added: If you were to have one piece of luck this week, what would it be? To win the lottery so I can afford to retire.
Like Katyboo I don’t like tagging people – although I’m always happy to be tagged – so you can all choose to take part or not. If you do, just leave a message and a link in the comments, please. Enjoy!
Hey there,Sorry to hear about the depression. I have to say that my new therapist lady who uses EFT has managed to get me through the last three weeks without me breaking down and losing it, despite the fact that over the course of that time I’ve had to face some of my worst fears. Maybe something to look into?HugsKx
Hi Katy! Thanks for your concern. I know nothing about EFT but I'll certainly look at it. My GP is currently suggesting CBT, which from the little I know of that seems to be a variant of NLP which I've had a counsellor use on me before to little effect. So I remain very sceptical about "talking therapies" — especially as like you I'm bright and inquisitive enough to see through most of them. This makes me surprised that hypnosis works on me at all. I was going to ask you about whatever therapies you know about, so if you feel inclined to email me at kcm [at] cix.co.uk I might pick your brains. :-)Many thanks & hugs … Kx
found this through French Toast Girl’s blog (I’m an EDiMer). Sorry about your depression. I am always interested in that as a subject having lived it most of my life. I’m out of the molassis now for the most part. Since your obsessed, I thought I’d tell you an interesting bit my dh heard on NPR or some reputable such place;-) : that depression was usually the result of an unmet expectation. So now if I suspect that the black fog is trying to descend upon me I look for any expectations I might have unknowingly been harboring. Just another tool in the belt (yikes, it never occurred to me before that sounds connotative! Must be your talk of erotica!LOL)Mary